
Well, we made the big mistake of setting our hopes on giving Jake a brother, especially since we had 2 chances with twins, but the ultrasound revealed two healthy little girls. I always get nervous about deformities or other risks when it is time to get the ultrasound, so we are grateful that everything is in order.
I am really beginning to feel concerned about the reality of caring for 2 new babies at the same time, but as always you just do what you have to do. It is not like I am all that great at keeping things in order anyway, but I am sure my social life is going to suffer:).
We are so grateful for all the help and support we have received from friends and family. As far as an early delivery, unless the babies come on their own they will not induce more than a week early. Even though I may be huge, the babies still need the full pregnancy to develop and grow. We are excited and can now begin the planning and preparing...
8.28.2008
Its a Girl and Its aGirl
8.25.2008
First Day of School
Anna decided to go for a new look for the new school year and cut herself some bangs. I had to cut a few more to balance out her job, but unfortunately I did not do it right and she trimmed them up again! So now she is looking rather retro with her short spikey bangs, but still adorable nonetheless. I of course strongly impressed upon her the fact that no one cuts their own hair.
To pacify or not to pacify?
This is a big decision for many new parents as they bring their child home from the hospital. You may find that many individuals have very strong feelings about whether or not to use a pacifier, but I on the other hand believe in the happiness and health of the new mother. If the pacifier does in fact pacify the child, then why not? Mary refused to have anything to do with it, and Anna and Jacob gave it up around 9 months and would have nothing more to do with it. Well, Brooke is my first child to become addicted to her pacifier. Having Brooke so hooked on her pacifier really began to worry me, especially with new babies on the way. I had decided to let her keep it until she was a little older and could negotiate, or be bribed off it.
Our plan changed abruptly as Brooke allowed our pet hamster Silky to chew up her last pacifier. I thought this would be our chance to break Brooke from her "passy". She could explain very well what had happened to her dear passy, but in the end the affection was too strong. She teared up as she explained to Moss that "Hampter ate da passy". To complicate the transition, she came down with a fever 2 days later which only made it worse (now I wonder if it wasn't psychosomatic). But after 3 nights of very little sleep we were begging for a pacifier, anything to get a little sleep. So now we are back to square one. (Although I do think the attachment has lessened somewhat.)
So back to the question, "to pacify or not to pacify?". All I can say is that the pacifier allowed for a lot of peaceful days and great naps. I am pretty sure we will be using them again when the new babies come:).
Retina Fellowship
Well, Moss has had his mind set on doing a retina fellowship since he began his residency. He has submitted his application to several programs, and now we just have to wait and see where he will be asked to interview. As you can see from his first two invitations, San Francisco and Rochester, NY, we could end up literally anywhere. We are both hoping to end up a little closer to either of our families if possible. In the end we don't just get to pick where we want to go, we have to submit a rank list and go through a matching process. In some ways this simplifies the decision-making, but in other ways it is hard to not have more control. We know the Lord has a plan for our growing family, and we are anxious to see where we will end up. We will find out sometime in December. It is hard to believe all the changes that are coming this winter. We know we are blessed, and look forward to all our opportunities to come.
8.19.2008
Family Reunion, Part 2- The Cabin
8.18.2008
Fun on the Water
The kids had a great time trying all sorts of new things. Anna wasn't quite as sure as Mary, but I was impressed that she was willing to do something so risky. I am sure that she would be quite a different person if Mary were not her older sister paving the way.
Mary was up for trying it all. This is her first time skiing and she got up on her second go at it. We couldn't get her to try anything outside of the wake, but I was impressed.
